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Sending you all of my love, Rosy. I am fortunate that my sister has been sober for more than 30 years without relapsing. Extremely fortunate. But I went through plenty of hell due to her drinking prior to that. I don’t hold it against her because I know she is sick and didn’t hurt those around her intentionally. Please, don’t give up on your sister. Ever. Miracles do happen. I hope one comes your way. ❤️

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Thank you for your kind words Linda. I have learnt so much since writing this piece and understand more about alcoholism. I realise that it is very much an illness and she doesn’t drink to hurt those around her. Of course we will all continue to stand by her and help her as best we can. We love her so much. That’s why it’s so painful to watch. I will pray for a miracle. ❤️

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It takes immense courage to put such raw pain into words. The way you capture the ripple effects of addiction is powerful and heart-wrenching. While it’s impossible to fully understand what you and your family have been through, but I certainly hope sharing this brought you some peace, and for your sister too. Take care, and thank you for your vulnerability.

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Rosy, this beautiful essay is so heartfelt. I’m so sorry you are all struggling through the devastating effects of your sister’s addiction. So sorry too that she is unable to recognise the wonderful family she has around her. Your longing to have the sister you once knew, back in your life is so palpable.❤️

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Thank you. That means a lot. ❤️

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Always keep fighting with courage, may God keep you courageous.

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It seemed wrong to hit the 'like' button for this. I'm sorry you are experiencing this - it's a never-ending downward spiral. Stay strong.

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